“Yeah, so my life drastically changed this week,” Erika Jayne introduced to the group of girls on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, and he or she wasn’t mendacity. The most up-to-date episode of the Bravo sequence takes place throughout Sutton’s Paris-themed lunch, the primary time the ladies noticed Erika because the information broke in November on Election Day 2020 that she had filed for divorce from husband Tom Girardi.
We’ve been promised that Erika can be mentioning all of it this season on the present, however with (*9*), how a lot may she actually say? Well, if this episode is any indication, so much. Especially in terms of the divorce, their marriage, and the way she is beginning her new life.
Here are the 9 wildest revelations Erika shared together with her pals:
1. What she left behind
“I let go of my Lamborghini, I let go of my 16,000 sq ft home, I let go of my marriage, I let go of everything,” she tells the desk of girls. “I literally made a decision that I had to.” On the brilliant facet, she did get herself a brand new automotive within the type of a Range Rover.
“I left because he pushed me further and further out,” she explains in regards to the finish of her marriage to Tom. “I had to make a choice to do what was right for me, I couldn’t live that way anymore.”
2. Why she couldn’t inform a soul
“None of you knew on purpose because it would put you in a bad position if I were to give you information that you had to hold and I didn’t want to do that and that’s the truth,” she tells the group, which explains their full shock when she beforehand texted them the information.
“It also doesn’t serve me to talk a lot about what is happening legally, or will happen legally, because I am married to somebody who’s very good in that area,” she mentioned, and the opposite girls may solely nod and perceive the place she was in.
“I struggled for a long time knowing that had to leave, but once I made my decision, spent a good 30 days closing out certain parts of my life,” Erika continued, as we see her promoting a few of her beautiful garments. “I cried every day. This was the end of a massive part of my life and stepping into basically a void,” she mentioned, detailing how each time she tried to speak it out with Tom, she was merely “met with such resistance.”
3. The fact about their marriage
“My marriage was never conventional,” Erika admits, although it feels vital now as a result of she at all times kind of performed it off as a relationship that labored for the 2 of them. Now, we see it didn’t. “In my marriage, if I wanted to open up and say, ‘You, Tom, have hurt my feelings,’ there was none of that. I was always dismissed.” Oof.
4. Why she filed on Election Day
“I filed on Election Day because I wanted it to get buried,” she confessed in her interview. “I was thinking, this is great, this is the most important historic election in modern times and this is gonna be a blip on the radar. I’ll slide through and nobody will know. Not happening,” she admitted, as a result of everyone knows that after we carried out our civic obligation, we texted everybody in regards to the information.
“Just so you know, I keep really good secrets,” she reminded her pals, earlier than then including, “As soon as I get a handle on what’s coming for me, and it will be coming for me,” which feels all too foreshadowy on this second.
5. Her new home
“You’re welcome over to my new tiny baby dollhouse,” Erika mentioned to her pals, earlier than revealing that she discovered it on-line, and that “it’s a rental, it’s cute.” She additionally half-whispered that she “stole the furniture” to embellish, earlier than clarifying that she “didn’t take a lot of things” from her previous home, however that “I did take a sofa and two chairs. I still don’t have a kitchen table.”
And the best way all of it went down offers you chills. “I dropped Tom off and work and I went home and moved out. I was out within the day. It’s frightening, you know, when you think about it,” she mentioned quietly.
Her new home is 2015 sq. ft and options 3 bedrooms and a pair of loos, which is definitely a change from her former 4 bedrooms and 9 loos. But on this home, one bed room is for sleeping, one is for garments, and one is “a shoe palace” that may home her equipment.
6. That site visitors story although
In what needs to be probably the most revealing tales she’s ever shared about her marriage, to not point out very chilling and essentially the most distinct proof that her sturdy facade was beginning to crack, Erika dropped this fact bomb in her interview. “I’ll never forget one time I was joining Tom and five other guys for dinner. I said, ‘I’m sorry I’m late, I was in traffic,’ and one of them said, ‘Well if you were married to a better man, traffic would be no problem.’ Tom straight looked at him across the table and said, ‘Well if you think you can afford her, you can have her.” My god.
“But I didn’t tell anybody because he supported me when there was nothing,” Erika mentioned. “There always that underlying pressure of wanting to please someone that’s provided for you. I felt always that I should shut up and be grateful to an extent.”
She additionally goes on to inform Lisa Rinna, “I’ve not felt this vulnerable in maybe ever,” and that “He left me no room and that’s the only way I can say it right now.”
7. How Tom obtained served
But there are just a few different particulars she will share. “I almost floated the idea of trial separation but I knew it wouldn’t work,” she admitted, figuring out that it needed to be a “get your shit and go” state of affairs as a substitute.
“I didn’t leave a note,” she acknowledged. “I drove him to work and I told him I loved him and he said, ‘Thanks hun,’ like I was an employee.” And that was the final time she noticed him. As she defined, “I went home and started putting everything in the moving van. I drove off, went to my new place, spent the night there, and he was served the next morning. We’re not playing games over here.”
She additionally very properly mentioned that she “Expects nothing but the worst and hoping for the best” and that “He’s got some real challenges ahead of him.” Feels like a little bit of an understatement at this level.
8. Hot Toddies & THC
In some higher information for Erika, she certain does love a sizzling toddy, as we obtained to see her drink two this episode, however that’s nothing in comparison with one other liquid. “That little present you gave me, I used it,” she tells Kyle. “I am lit right now. There is this intimate oil that Kyle gifted, it’s THC. She’s been telling us about this oil that she and Mauricio have been enjoying. So I said, hook a girl up, I put it all over my clit and my vajayjay,” she introduced to the group to delighted squeals. But Kyle, hook us all up please and tell us which model you’re utilizing, lady!
9. When she is going to transfer on
It’s going to be a protracted highway forward for Erika as many messy authorized battles are nonetheless to come back, however in terms of the additionally messy world of relationship, she had a plan. “I’m giving myself 90 days,” she instructed the group. “No sex. It’s the last thing on my mind, but in 90 days I’m sure I’ll feel different.”
The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills airs Wednesday at 8 pm ET/PT on Bravo.