How I lived in luxury for free

Each summer time, the world’s richest flood Long Island’s East End. But when they’re away, their sprawling mansions change into straightforward targets for intrepid interlopers trying for a free style of life among the many 1 %. Here, one nameless Hamptons squatter comes clear.

Want to crash in a waterfront Hamptons mansion in August? Get 500,000 of your closest buddies to chip in $1. Or, do what I did: Find a few buddies with insider data, the reward of gab and loads of chutzpah. 

That’s how I was in a position to spend summer time after summer time in my 20s dwelling massive in the nation’s most expensive zip codes for free. I was a Hamptons squatter, and my motto was: “Go big and in someone else’s home.” 

The absentee house owners of those ostentatious homes didn’t know me from Adam. Still, like a modern-day Goldilocks, I slept in their beds, sat in their chairs and ate their meals. Usually it was solely for a couple of days, however typically, it was so long as every week. 

A picture of a young woman who spent her 20s living in the lap of luxury by illegally entering Hamptons mansions.
One younger lady spent her 20s dwelling in the lap of luxury by illegally getting into Hamptons mansions through a community of service employees.
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I grew up in a working-class group in a flyover state. Our second residence was a secondhand camper. My siblings and I, now all in our late 20s and early 30s, slept on a desk that become a mattress. The bathroom was no matter tree we might match behind.

But after transferring to New York as an 18-year-old for faculty, I scored a minimum-wage summer time job at a clothes retailer in East Hampton and an unpaid publishing internship in Bridgehampton. It was the primary time I had ever seen correct trip properties, not to mention a $50 million mansion. 

At the beginning of the season, I moved into the basement of a fairly modest five-bedroom home in Southampton. I stayed for free in change for serving to with the household’s younger kids after they weren’t in camp. But every year in August, the house owners rented out the home and gave me the boot. So, in a approach, I didn’t select the squatting life. It selected me.


Over the years, the eight-figure homes I squatted in had been as far north as Shelter Island and as far south as Shinnecock Bay. They included sprawling shingle-covered mansions with columns impressed by the Acropolis and oeil-de-boeuf home windows straight out of the Palace of Versailles. There was a up to date south-of-the-highway, two-story glass field and even a three-story, seven-bedroom retreat with water views on three sides. 

First, my fellow squatters, service-industry buddies based mostly on the East End, would discover out which one in every of their prospects was flush sufficient to own multiple vacation homes, a yacht or perhaps a non-public island. The tremendous wealthy typically don’t lease out their Hamptons homes whereas they’re overseas, gallivanting in St-Tropez or cruising the Adriatic – although these 25,000-square-foot playgrounds might simply fetch $1 million for a single month.

A stocked beverage fridge in a Hamptons home.
The squatter would assist herself to the beverage fridge — however didn’t invade the wine cellar as a part of her peculiar moral code.
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Next, my buddies would be certain that the owners had been away. Social media makes that straightforward however so does a fast dialog. A consumer would possibly inform my private coach pal he wouldn’t want her companies in August as a result of he’ll be touring. I was by no means there for that convo, however I think about they responded with questions like, “Oh, are you going to rent out your house then? Where will the kids be?” That would get the ball rolling.

Once we had fingered a retreat, we’d drive over and begin the occasion — and consider it or not, it’s that straightforward.

That mentioned, I by no means broke into anybody’s residence. I didn’t elevate my center finger to “No Trespassing” indicators or disable ADT techniques. I merely confirmed up on the addresses my home hunter buddies gave me. Because my buddies had been non-public private trainers or catering managers who had already labored from time to time in these mansions, they had been aware of the full-time workers. 

“Hi, I’m with X,” I would say referring to a pal who knew the home. Even if that pal wasn’t there on the time, the workers — who I had by no means met earlier than — all the time let me in. No questions requested, besides for one: “Can I get you anything?” 


I don’t bear in mind having home keys. I bear in mind unlocked doorways. If a code was wanted to get previous a safety gate, the workers supplied it. Better nonetheless, the code by no means modified, so I got here and went as I happy.

A brand new rent who didn’t know us? No drawback. We simply performed the a part of common friends. My buddies and I had been equal elements match, enticing and white. It’s unhappy, however that mixture actually does open doorways.  

In reality, properties which can be nonetheless absolutely staffed when owners are away are best for squatting. It appears to be like extra suspicious to the neighbors if new individuals out of the blue arrive at an empty home. So as soon as the workers accepts you, you’re in.

Refrigerated leftovers that would be thrown away at a Hamptons home.
The kitchen workers could be happy that the squatter was keen to eat leftovers destined for the trash.
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Moreover, the home workers had been all the time completely happy to see us. I assume it’s as a result of workers are employed to do particular duties. If nobody is residence, it’s straightforward to lose your sense of function, whether or not you’re a chef or a pool boy.

When we arrived, they’d new style buds to check their recipes on and a trim, bikini-clad physique to swim in the painstakingly cleaned pool. I was all the time well mannered and by no means took benefit of them. I knew I wasn’t signing their paychecks. 


I was raised to be a staunch Catholic and was even chosen to help the pope in a particular mass. So even when I was squatting, I was on my finest conduct and after a couple of squats, I developed an odd code of ethics.

For instance, there have been all the time formal eating rooms. But I ate in the kitchens. I favored the cooks’ firm, and I assume they favored mine. I additionally favored to rescue meals. In these homes, nobody thought twice about tossing untouched lobster tails or hours-old pastries from the Hamptons’ bougiest bakeries into the trash. I would watch the chef’s disbelief flip to reduction when I’d inform them I’d eat in the present day’s leftovers tomorrow. 

A freezer stocked with premium ice cream at a Hamptons home.
An total freezer of gourmand frozen treats discovered at one of many properties she illegally entered.
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In between meals, I’d raid the freezers and fridges. It felt like Christmas morning when I found that first stainless-steel Pandora’s field filled with pints of Häagen Dazs, Ciao Bella and each premium model of ice cream I’d by no means had the disposable earnings to attempt. Sometimes, I’d open the fridges simply to admire the cans and bottles lined up with army precision. There was all the time Red Bull, the total line of Coke and Pepsi merchandise, an assortment of waters and an arsenal of alcohol. 

I bear in mind one raging pool occasion, thrown by different squatters whose keep overlapped with mine. Let’s simply say it will need to have freed up quite a lot of house in the wine cellar. As for me, I by no means touched the arduous stuff. In my bizarre world of morals, grabbing a Perrier was fantastic, however popping a bottle of bubbly crossed a line. Another line I by no means crossed was utilizing the main bedroom or toilet. It felt like the final word violation of privateness. 


I lived with a conscience. I additionally lived in concern: all the time trying round for hidden cameras (which all of those properties have however nobody checks). I’d perch on the sting of customized couches as a substitute of sitting again and getting snug. Despite the 500-thread-count Egyptian cotton sheets, I slept with one eye open. As tempting because it was, I didn’t loot the availability closets full of further toiletries and sufficient bathroom paper to fulfill a COVID-19 prepper. I might by no means fully calm down. I was all the time fearful the proprietor would stroll in. They by no means did. 

There was, nevertheless, one shut name. The house owners of our squat — a waterfront property in North Haven (the world between Sag Harbor and Shelter Island) — confirmed up simply after we had left and found that my buddies, who labored gigs for them in the previous, had broken their fishing gear. I don’t know the way my buddies heard the owners had been pissed and had pinned it on them. I didn’t need to know. Believing ignorance was bliss, I lived a really don’t-ask, don’t-tell life again then. Fortunately, fees had been by no means filed. 

Personally, I didn’t really feel unhealthy about my conduct at that home. I had solely used one of many owners’ paddleboards. I was so thoughtful, I adjusted the paddle deal with again to the peak it was when I discovered it. My broke TJ Maxxinista ass even resisted the temptation to attempt on the Lacoste polos, cashmere sweaters and designer denims hanging in the visitor room closets (overflow from the grasp closet, I presume). I additionally averted the high-powered telescope perched on a tripod going through the sitting room’s floor-to-ceiling home windows. Call me a hypocrite, however spying on the neighbors throughout the bay felt too voyeuristic. 

Looking again on my transient time as a squatter, I gained’t say I’m happy with what I did. But I assume I’m happy with what I didn’t do. That mentioned, if I ever determined to dabble in squatting once more, I’d do it in the Hamptons. If its second properties are this good, how unhealthy can the jail cells be?

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